Friday, April 4, 2014

When All Else Fails

Some time ago, I received an email from a "practitioner" who was one of those who openly told the world that 'Spirits are aspects of human consciousness' (much like his hero Crowley asserted.) He used to summon Spirits regulary, or so he said, until finally all hell broke loose in his home Temple. He tried various methods to get the Spirit to quiet down or banish it all together but nothing worked.

He tried a host of CM techniques from banishment's like the Star Ruby, LBRP, Greater Pentagram, LHRP, Greater Hexagram, even the Watchtwower Ceremony and all for naught. Then he decided to try Hoodoo methods with different potions, powders, sprays, candles & biblical prayers. Again nothing. He tried getting some folks to come over and do a ritual as a group and still no change. He got desperate so he decided to try some Satanic workings hoping to alleviate the tension in his home and yet still the angry Spirit won't budge. His wife even gave it a shot with some born again ministers she found up the street at a local church and had them parading through their home tossing holy water around shouting in the name of Jesus and still nada.

This had been going on for about 8 months when I got the email. Interestingly enough, the guy had a pretty decent work up on the Spirit so I had him transfer the details over to me and I had to meditate on this. Somehow the Spirit told him Its name. Funny how with all of those other methods he used, none of them were effective while invoking the Spirit’s name. Further he had some sample drawings of the Spirit along with Its office, hierarchy and what It did.

One of the nice things about being initiated, is you have authority with Spirits. No I’m not talking your typical initiation via Wicca or Ceremonial MagicK but a REAL initiation into a living tradition of Magic. In those mainstream instances you don’t have anywhere near the authority you do like when you’re duly initiated and given real power from a long House line. I knew that this is what it would take to get the Spirit’s full cooperation.

So I went into my Temple and summoned my own personal Spirits first and discussed the matter with them. We unanimously agreed to add this angry Spirit to our ever growing Spirit family. So with the help of my personal Familiar Spirits, I summoned the offending Spirit to my Temple to talk with me. He had a lot to say about why He was angry: no one would feed it. It had tried to tell Mr. Oblivious that It was hungry but Mr. Oblivious being an all knowing Ceremonial MagicKian who knows that figments of your imagination don’t need to be fed, he never bothered. Thus the Spirit being hungry and downright angry lashed out. Banishments don’t work. Prayers don’t work. Threats don’t work. Incantations and orations from grimoires don’t work. Satanic ideas don’t work. Hoodoo potions & biblical prayers don’t work.

To truly deal with Spirits, one needs actual authority behind them. Sure there are many born-again xians pretending to be Ceremonial MagicKians (or is that vice-versa?) which doesn't mean squat to the Spirits. Threats in the name of Jesus doesn't do anything either except annoy them. So what does work?

Having an authentic, valid initiation where you are actually initiated and have Spiritual authority bestowed upon you that the Spirit recognizes is first and foremost. It’s not what you think will work but what the Spirit knows will work. It's not what you think, but what the Spirit thinks that matters.

The end result came about after I agreed to take on the case and lured the Spirit here to my Temple, offered It a permanent home, fed It and now I have an extra, happy servant at my disposal. It knows that It will be fed regularly and will be safe here. Plus my own Spirits will keep It in line and more importantly, out of trouble.

Sometimes thumbing through Agrippa looking for a formula just isn't going to help especially when you have no Spiritual authority whatsoever. Threatening a Non-Physical Entity with punishment you cannot give is not only lame but also stupid. That’s like threatening a lone gang member on the street. He may walk away but what are you going to do IF he calls your bluff? LBRP yourself to death? Pfffft.

I will admit, I dealt with a few such cases prior to my initiation and I won’t lie to you, they were difficult. Disposing of an unwanted Spirit is no easy task when you have no Spiritual Authority behind you - well unless you are psychotic and the Spirit is actually just something inside your head and not real.

A non-initiate has to earn respect from the world of Spirits. Unfortunately, that’s not something that can be taught. It’s like becoming an officer over a platoon right out of boot camp and officer training school: you must earn the respect of the platoon. The average CM is not interested in such. Look at the literature - there’s nothing in there about earning a Spirit’s trust or respect so why would those lunatics bother to think of this?

If you wish to delve more into the where & why of Spirits, re-visit my older blog post from July 2012 entitled Spirits: Not What You've Been Told which will help you find out more about the real deal where Spirits are concerned versus the typical parrots parroting other parrots which is what the occult literature offers from so-called authors. Remember, authors just want to sell books and a lot of them do secondary research with books which is "scholarly". However are you interested in results or scholarship? You need to make up your mind. If you want to get things DONE then forget about scholarship and do the work; if all you care about is being accepted by a bunch of guys wearing funny headdresses, robes & holding pretty hand painted tools while speaking in Medieval English, be my guest.

Ceremonial Magickians think shouting Jewish names of Yahweh somehow frightens Spirits which is one of the funniest things ever!

Spirit: "You’re an asshole and going to regret you just did that!"


Sp: "Really? You did not just say that to me! Oh I am so going to fuck you up, fool!"


Sp: "You know this is an enclosed space, that’s frankincense you’re burning and pretty soon, your oxygen supply will be getting thin..."


Sp: "Seriously? You’re shouting Hebrew names at me because why? Is that supposed to scare me or something? I’m not scared. Try harder!"


Sp: *yawn*

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Superstitious Flakes

Some of you reading this baffle me. Why? Because you are superstitious to the point of being a flake. Look I know the occult world has a mixture of superstition, religion, metaphysics and so on, all intertwined. Seriously, you do not have to be one of those folks who think just because s/he practices Sorcery or (ugh) MagicK that everything you do has some sort of “consequence”.

What is the deal with thinking that everything that goes wrong is always someone out to get you? Or some Spirit is out to harm you? Seriously? You’re buying into the Bogeyman theory? C’mon you’re supposed to be a practitioner of the occult not some half-witted flake pretending to practice the occult!

And where is it engraved in stone that if you are initiated or have Spiritual abilities that you’re impervious to problems or danger? Who’s the moron that thinks just because you’re a Navy Seal that you’re bulletproof? Yes it IS the same logic. Some of you have this idiotic belief that if you get initiated all your problems will somehow disappear. Hah!

Dogs runaway, cats get run over, neighbors can just be asshats, vehicles have problems, appliances break down, life has PROBLEMS, all right? It’s part and parcel of the business. If you don’t have any problems, you’re not doing anything. Hello? Life happens and thus we have problems whether we’re rich or poor, intelligent or stupid, young or old initiated or not. It’s the way of the world. Get used to it!

Yet the biggest purveyors of the idiotic nonsense that if you’re initiated or have Sorcery, you shouldn’t have any problems are those halfwits who believe in Karma. You’re the ones who make up all of the excuses as to why such bad things happen to begin with. No one said life was going to be easy just because you made your wand or you follow some hermetic path, did they? If so get a refund.

There are magicKians out there who argue over the definitions of magicK or argue about which neo-masonic order is valid or whether Barrett actually stole from Agrippa and so on but none of these geniuses ever bother to stop and look at how foolish it is to think that just because you have met your HGA (well for those of you who actually DID the work to meet it!) that all your problems would simply vanish.

Yes superstition goes hand in hand with the occult, metaphysics and Sorcery but does that mean you have to some kind of new age flake who every time something bad happens to you that it’s automatically some Spirit or some practitioner working against you? Please, you are not that important! Did you read that? YOU ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT.

I know many of you would like to believe you are important but in reality, you’re not. If you ceased to be, some would feel sadness from your departure but overall the world would still spin, rains would still come & go and the seasons would change without fail.

Had a practitioner email me asking me what was befalling him since his sister somehow managed to let their dog out and forgot about the dog that it got lost and ended up freezing to death in a very cold stretch of cold weather this past winter. He wanted to know why. After all, he’s initiated. Well la dee friggin’ da. His sister is a moron and he should get rid of her. But it’s not the Spirits fault nor is it his wards at home or any such thing. It’s just pure human stupidity. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Who Says You're Intelligent or Not?

What makes each of us intelligent? Is it our IQ? That subject has been hotly debated by scholars themselves since those tests first appeared. Some claim that the mental state you’re in, how you’re feeling, health-wise and so forth also determines how well you’ll do on an IQ test so are such tests truly an indicator of true intelligence? Yes I know those who administer them are believers but hey in all fairness, their jobs depend on them just like HR people in corporations depend on the sometimes silly hoops they make job applicants jump through when applying for a job such as length of resumes.

We often look at success factors as indicators of intelligence since after all if you’re successful at something, you obviously know how to do it right, right? Many would disagree and state that there are numerous examples of morons who run successful companies into the ground by accident or design and that those who succeed often have Dame Fortuna dancing with them. Still success at something does point towards doing the right things at least to the motivational crowd.

What about old fashioned common sense? Now that’s something that often gets thrown out there for everyone to examine and it is amazing at how many “agreed” responses to a statement such as “Common sense is so rare it’s almost classified as a super power.” And still look at how many otherwise rational people make bad decisions and wind up in a smelly pile of dung. They often get pointed at with disdain while snickering, “Look at those fools!” And are they fools? Perhaps or did they just make one bad decision that got them caught?

Does a sheepskin automatically make you intelligent? I don’t think it does and I’ve been to college. What it does is prove you can follow a course of study, read pre-selected materials, analyze them, write up reports on them and memorize data to use in tests. Period. The sad part is very few college grads I have talked with have ever really used their degrees. I didn’t get a degree myself though I wanted to finish it at the time but life got in the way. I got a certificate in an Associate’s program which simply means I took the core courses & passed them. Not having a degree has left a few doors closed to me over the years - I say a few because I’ve been involved in sales & marketing and trust me, I have mad skills at those subjects and people wanted me on their team. Thus even companies with bachelor’s degrees required often waived them to get me on board and a few others I know went through the same thing.

So what makes one ‘intelligent’? I think it is the ability to go and find what it is you need to know to solve a problem or issue. People bandy the term ‘smart’, ‘brilliant’ and ‘genius’ around these days and true there are a number of folks who seem to be walking encyclopedias but a lot of these folks live in their parent’s basements which is something I never understood. You can solve complex mathematical equations but you cannot have a simple relationship with a man or woman? What is up with that? How is it you can rattle off lists of math formulas, chemistry tables & even write out some useful algorithms but when it comes to dealing with Joe & Mary Sixpack, you’re an abject failure? Wow, you’re definitely BRILLIANT aren’t you?

I’ve sat in groups, chat rooms, forums & what not watching scads of these intellectuals arguing the finite details about everything from philosophy to religion to High MagicK to earth science and yet a number of these eggheads are horridly terrible with just being a nice person to others. It’s like they feel they must have the absolute last word in about everything or else their universe will implode. How sad and pathetic. Hey I know it stings and hurts like hell to be put in your place by someone but to continue beating the horse after the life has left it only shows you’re a moron not the other person.

Have I been guilty of this? Absolutely! It’s taken me some serious soul searching to come to these conclusions and to realize that I don’t know everything. For years I have maintained that my specialties in the world of the Occult are Sorcery, Armenan Runes and Spirits. Those three subjects cover a helluva lot of ground and rightfully so but still those areas are vast and I cannot lay claim to knowing everything there is to know about all of those things. However what I DO know, I KNOW because I have the practical experience to back it up. 

Back in the day, I used to collect every book, every grimoire out there and then one day a realization came over me: most of these books are wrong. Once you get really initiated and I’m not talking about some McWiccan or Ceremonial Moron initiation but a REAL initiation, then things change and you learn what’s real, what’s hokum, what works and what’s horse shit. Unfortunately for your peers, they’re on their own and stuck with the miserable crap that comes out as ‘learned’ Occult material. 

(Hey I feel for you but not my problem anymore!)

There are people running around in the world of the Occult playing at pseudo-intellectual, mostly in the Ceremonial Moron groups. Why? Misery loves company I guess. But there are some dynamite Ceremonial Magicians just as there are some outstanding Wiccans who I would never hesitate to send someone to. Before Jason came along, I had no one other than my old pal Brujo Negro to send anyone to who was looking for authentic Sorcery. Why? It’s hard to find someone who is rational, intelligent, composes himself well, and knows how to throw down when the shit hits the fan. Brujo Negro & I go way back to the late 90's so we have history; Jason & I have history from other old Yahoo Groups when he used to go by Inondinandium (sorry if I misspelled that, Jason!).

There are a lot of folks pretending to be practitioners who just collect books & comment on them giving lectures & theses on them and they often have me wondering if they are actually just some yucks from some university studying abnormal psychology who are having fun with us. Oddly enough, it’s not just the western magicK side of the coin either as there are oodles of wannabes in the ARS (African Religious Systems) who pretend to know what they’re doing and they don’t know squat. The ARS is rife with folks selling Elleggua heads as authentic when they’re not; of peddling Spirits when they have no right to do so; or selling Ngangas or Prendas when they’ve never even had their head washed in the Yoruban system. As much as I can’t stand most Yoruban practitioners, I don’t like seeing people ripping their system off just like I don’t like to see the same sort of dipshidiots doing the same sorts of things to the Fon either.

When you look at it as a whole and boil it all down, it’s personal choices that make us intelligent or not. And I also want to state that I think our intelligence waxes & wanes just like the Moon does because even the smartest people make stupid decision at times. I know because I’ve witnessed many of them doing it! And it’s funny! Especially when you either know or have a strong idea of what’s going to happen once their decision has been made final. I don’t believe intelligence is static and I believe it grows and declines in all of us as we choose our various interests to pursue.

One man who proved you could be highly intelligent without much education was Henry Ford. He realized that if you drew upon the resources of others, there is nothing you could not achieve. He even went to court to prove this theory and did so. The prosecution called him all but an idiot and yet Ford remained calm and explained that by the push of a button, he could call in any man into his office to answer any question known at that time. That’s power. That’s real intelligence. Remember it’s not about what you memorize or how big your cranium is, it’s how you utilize it and the other resources at your disposal.

If others call you a simpleton, moron, dufus, idiot, fool - so what? Greater men and minds than yours have been called that and more. I don’t think they lost any sleep over it nor should you. Be yourself. Don’t try to compete. Just be you.

Monday, February 10, 2014

The Imagination - Getting Even Without Getting Into Trouble

Your imagination is the single most powerful tool you have at your fingertips. Period. End of discussion. No your will is not all powerful as many of you misbelieve nor is your intent where the real Sorcery begins but rather it is at the level of imagination where creation begins to take on true shape and form.

Think about what you can achieve with your imagination! Anything. Even if you’re honked off at some douchebag who practically ran you off the road this morning, you can run him over, shoot him, flay the skin from his bones layer by layer - all in the comfort & privacy of your own imagination. You can hog tie him and drag him behind your car on the way to work and feel satisfied. I did that many times in the past and it always felt comforting.

What’s the point in physically killing the douchebag when you can filet his miserable hide again and again all without incurring any legal consequences and no moral absolutes. It is just you, your imagination and a little creativity. Think about it for a bit. If you wanted to, you can kill anyone in your mind and watch them bleed to death, suffer or whatever you want. Hopefully you won't be choosing innocents to do this to but to those scumbags who cause you hassles in your day-to-day life.

The key is to simply do this and not physically act on those impulses. Rather allow yourself to go into a laboratory with whoever is upsetting you strapped to a table. Next to them on another table is row after row of surgical implements that you can use to cause the bastard pain. This is your world of imagination and you should be able to torture, maim & kill whoever you wish inside there.

Now some of you reading this are horrified. Why? In your imagination, you're alone. This is your own private, created world. No one else has any say in how you run or use your imagination thus do as you please. You do such things here so you do not have to actually do any of these horrible things in real life. Trust me the feeling of release will allow you to feel much better. And seriously it is fun to imagine new sorts of tortures for your douchebag victim when you use this sort of inner therapy.

No need to imagine any pink bubbles or white light at all. Even if you’re a believer in karma (Gods know why!) there’s nothing to fear since you will not act on it but rather just enjoy the pleasure you get from torturing those who have made YOU suffer all in the comfort & privacy of your own, devious mind. This is your private sanctum and no one else has any say so within or about it. In fact, the wisest course is to keep this completely personal and hush-hush so that folks don’t think you’re insane. Because you are not but rather just enjoying the feeling of getting even with that dirtbag of a mother in law or that religious preaching brother who always knock you or that school bully who toninually torments you.

The key is to not activate these images by putting energy into them because that would be doing Sorcery. If you don’t want the person to really suffer, then do not use any energy whatsoever but rather enjoy finding ways to give it all back to them with much more vehemence than they showed you. If you wish, change the scenery to some Medieval dungeon in a drafty castle in the Bavarian alps or some moss covered stone works over a Scottish loch somewhere. Your imagination, your rules, your place. Simple as that.

Remember to keep this to yourself as there are a lot of busy bodies who pretend to care but in truth they are no more than asshats who want to sit and judge others on their thoughts & behaviors. Do you enjoy being judged? I don’t. Do you want to be examined under a microscope? To what end or purpose? Is it useful to you? No it’s not. Thus keep your mouth shut and just enjoy the time you take to put things to right by clearly imagining your worst enemy’s slow demise. In fact it is also therapeutic to imagine them as dead in a coffin at a funeral. Once they’re lowered in the ground they’re dead to you. Simple as that.

Their sting won’t be as hard hitting later on when you have to deal with them.

Sunday, December 29, 2013

Love Spells & Your Sphere of Availability

Lately I have been asked on more than one occasion about the Love Spell on my site that more or less binds you to the one you choose, forever. This seems to scare a number of folks and it should because what you are doing is limiting the amount of people you interact with romantically-sexually to just one at the cost of your freedom and ability to go beyond those limitations.

You need to understand that you are making an oath - a pledge, a sworn statement, a promise to the Spirits of Love who are mentioned in the spell that you want this one person and you will be faithful to them. Perod. No wiggle room allowed. Thus if s/he cheats on you, you had better NOT cheat on them for revenge else the Spirits will take issue with your cheating and punish you severely.

Now while this IS a powerful spell, realize there are caveats. One of the biggest ones is ‘you must find a suitable partner who is within your sphere of availability’. Did you get that? Do you understand what that implies? First off a suitable partner is one who is into you and what you do. Secondly, your sphere of availability is limited by many factors such as:

a. age - sorry folks if you’re not in the age range of the person you’re attracted to’s age limitations, then you’re barking up the wrong tree. Thus if you’re a young whippersnapper and you have the hots for a 30+ y/o lass, and she’s really not interested in anyone under the age of 30, go find someone else. If you’re an old fart who likes the young girls around 20 y/o, and they want guys more their age, you’re fooling yourself and you are stupid for doing so.

b. background - this covers where you come from, who is your family background, your medical history, credit history and etc. Let’s face facts: if you grew up on the wrong side of the tracks, unless the gal you pine for has a thing for bad boys, it’s doubtful she’s going to be interested. If he’s a big star and you’re a person with no credits to your name, the chances are slim to none of his romantic interest. Or let's say you have the hots for some actor or rock star. Good luck, so do a LOT of others. You think a mere spell is going to pull that one in for you? Doubtful. Try meeting him/her once, maybe at a backstage signing and see if there's any sparks. May cost you a few hundred bucks to meet your dreamboat but you'll quickly see you are one of many to them.

c. finances - okay money talks, bullshit walks, right? Money  cannot buy you happiness however it can allow you to throw lavish parties where you can invite a whole lot of the people you’re interested in; purchase nice clothes so you look good and looks are important; get you a nice home in the suburbs where lovely women like to build a nest; and so on. If you’re struggling to make it, some folks may take notice and give you kudos but for long term relationships, it’s doubtful you’ll attract the gorgeous little thing you find adorably cute to go out with you especially when there are guys making a lot more than you are who are available.

d. attitude - whether you believe it or not, your personal attitude will either draw people to you or push them away. The ideal is to draw them to you thus you may need to change your outlook on life and do a mental make over. You can’t succeed in life by being a Sour Sam all the time. Thus if your nature is geared towards the negative side of life, you’re going to have to hunt to find the perfect fit for your melancholy mindset.

e. physical appearance - yes it IS a major factor. Some women spend thousands of dollars every year getting hair, nails, facials and then shopping for clothes that fit and allow them to look their best. You waltz around in torn jeans, old tee shirts & rarely comb your hair and you want a 10? Yeah think again bub. Sure there are some gals who love the mussed up look but they also like six pack abs and drop dead looks on the guys who can dress like that and get away with it. If you’re over weight and you want a really pretty girl, you should consider joining a gym and working out and eating better. ‘Lose the weight to get a date’ ought to be your mantra.

f. health - sorry but this is important. Some men & women are not interested in someone they may have to take care of in a few years for the rest of their lives. Yeah I know many do it because it’s love and guys like New Gingrich have abandoned their spouses lying sick in the hospital room so they can further their careers, their fun & their sexual opportunities. Is that lame? Yup it is but that’s how many folks are. They’re selfish and you need to find out how your potential S/O feels about health before you go tossing your interest into the spell.

Unfortunately we live in a world where people have unrealistic expectations. They assume Magic will fix everything for them. Unh-unh. Sorry. It does not happen that way. Love is fickle, it is often fleeting and it can be painful.

I often tell my students that reality is a combination of three things: Fate, Luck & Free Will. Now many of you say that there is no such things as fate or luck but you’re talking out your ass. You’re living in a world of scientific equations and you expect one day to figure it all out - you just have to find the right equation. Good luck. You’re about as hopeless as those Ceremonial MagicKians are who are trying to find the lost, sacred, most powerful Magic word and it doesn't exist.

Using the love spell as a backdrop, let’s look at how fate, luck & free will enter into the picture, okay? It’s simple:

Fate says your love spell to find the right mate will work. 

Luck will bring you X amount of suitable partners. 

Free Will allows you to choose one of those partners.

Fate is the things in life that ARE going to happen to you without your approval whether you like them or not. For instance, it may be that you’re going to marry-divorce-remarry more than once.

Luck is simply the randomness that manifests things in your life like suitable partners. True out of 10 potential suitors there may be only one who is ideally suited to you but that does not mean they are the only one. One of the other 9 may be willing to change enough to suit you.

Free Will is simply your personal choice in the situation. Out of the 10 choices for a potential mate, you choose one. Simple enough.

That’s how it goes.

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Love Spells - the Truth!

It is about time someone finally educated you ladies and lads out there on what what love spells are and actually do and do NOT do. I have finally had my fill of people wanting a love spell done but then they want everything to be hunky dory and permanent. Um, sorry sister but it’s time you woke up and smelled some coffee.

We live in a modern society where there are literealy more people in one state than there were in all of Europe during the Middle Ages. Today the opportunity to find a lasting love is as close as the Internet connection and this causes a lot of trouble. Further today we have a vast arrary of media at our disposal that gives us plenty to look at.

What many of you ladies (& some lads) want is you want a ‘permanent bend over’ spell. You think you want a love spell but when I ask you what that entails, I hear, “I want him to love me and only me for all time and eternity!” Wow! Not much of a choice in that is there? Yet most of you gals have very little understanding in what a love spell actually is let alone how it works.

Love magic involves a ‘drawing towards’ type of spell. You are looking to find a man (or woman) who will be passionate, romantic, enthralled and filled with you. Do you know why this is? Because you watch too much damn TV! You read those dime store smut novels called Harlequin Romance stories and you think that is what love is.

A love spell will draw a person to you. If you don’t have a particular person in mind, the magic will work to find someone suitable because everyone wants someone compatible. However, Ms. I-Know-What-I-Want thinks she has to have Mr. Handsome Hunk so she requests him. Okay so the spell is worked and yeah he meets you and maybe is enthralled with you enough to sleep with you. You’re a woman after all and he is a man.

The problem does not end there. Ms. I-Know feels he is right for her so she decides to grab a book on Witchcraft or Sorcery and buys the items necessary for the spell. She works it and nada. Instead of giving up, Ms. I-Know decides to seek out someone with some firepower as an Occult practitioner to help her out. (At least she knows her limitations!)

When Pete the Practitioner does his JuJu and the handsome hunk Ms. I-Know wants drops by, it’s just for a booty call. Ms. I-Know gets indignant and a fight ensures. (Sound familiar?) Mr. Handsome Hunk walks away merrily to meet one of his other squeezes and moves on down the road. Later when Ms. I-Know realizes what she has done, she goes in search of the practitioner and bitches Pete the Practitioner out. “You said you could make him love me! He only came over to have sex! I’m not some sort of tramp!” (And etc.) Ms. I-Know’s rant is so expletive laden it could peel paint off the walls.

Hollywood is to blame here, folks, not Pete the Practitioner. Why? Well Hollywood has a wonderful way of mis-interpreting the Occult, Witchcraft & yes even Vodu as far more than what it is. In fact, a spell is shown to always work, always be ultimately powerful, and always permanent. That’s a fairytale folks. You rea that? A fairetale!

Pete the Practitoner DID his job. He cast the love spell and yeah Mr. Handsome Hunk dropped by. Pete’s job is over. It is YOU as a woman whose job it is to make any man find a reasont o love you especially permanently if you truly want a long lasting relationship.

Love = Sex

For many of you, love equals sex. Don’t’ believe me? Why do you call screwing ‘love making’? Hello? That’s not making love, that’s getting animalistic and screwing aka having sex! It’s your own damned fault because all of you as a society have mislabled things to the point it’s all screwed up and you get all honked off because he drops by to ‘make love’. But you want to get to know him better and well baby, Mr. Handsome Hunk ain’t interested in nesting with you. You see women nest which is to say you like to find a home, build a home and reproduce. Mr. Handsome Hunk is in the prime of his life and he likes variety. Tying himself down to you just ain’t in the plans, baby.

You see, most men already know that the way to a woman’s sexual parts is through her heart. Tell her stuff she wants to hear, treat her nice and “Abracadabra, Alakazam!” she’s yours. Yes much easier than not. Most women are dying for the romance, love and affection they see on TV or in the movies or read about in dime store paperbacks.

“But Moloch, he said such nice things to me!” yeah and you wrapped your legs around him, didn’t you? Of course you did. You thought by giving yourself to him, you’d be able to keep him. LoL Lied like hell, didn’t he? OH yes it hurts and hurts badly. *shrugs* I can’t speak for all men but I have watched many a player and watched many men be played as well.

It is YOUR JOB as a woman to find out what it is he likes, how he likes to be treated and then decide if you want to be with him BEFORE you open your legs to him! Hello? Some men know what they want in a woman and a relationship and if you quickly open yourself to him, guess what? He figures you’ll do it for any guy who talks nice to you so he relegates you to ‘needy’ and ‘trampy’ and moves on.

Why Men Wander

Men wander or ‘cheat’ on their S/O’s usually due to the fact most women are untrained when it comes to sex. Having been a free spirit myself since my divorce, I have been amazed at how so few women know much about sex. The vast majority think just spreading your legs is all a man wants. Guess again.

Men like a little mystery. We enjoy a wide variety of sex from role playing to kinky fetishes to trying new things and lots in between. I am amazed also at how little imagination most women have when it comes to sex. Tell a woman you want her to wear something special to the bedroom and you get the deer in the headlights stare, “My husband never asked for any of that!” Well sweetie, I ain’t your damned ex-husband!

“He wants to have sex with what? Where?” your girlfriends ask. Well really is it right discussing your personal sex life let alone what Mr. Handsome Hunk wants with your g/f’s, sisters or mothers? No it’s not right but a LOT of you do that. I have dumped women for discussing our sex life. To me that is a breach of trust. I do not discuss my sex life with my buddies or brothers let alone Dad. Yeesh. Loose lips sink ships. Okay girls? Keep your trap shut and you may be able to keep Mr. Handsome Hunk.

IF your man wants a BJ or anal penetration or he wants to suck your toes (or vice-versa) or anything out of the ordinary, then you need to make a firm decision as to whether or not you want to have this man as your partner. Why? Because let’s say your man likes to wear your panties just in the bedroom. If that disgusts you, guess what? He’ll find someone who will allow him to do that. Hello?

Maybe he wants to role play you as his babysitter and he’s a little boy. If you can’t do that then all right but realize the likelihood of him wandering is high. He will find a woman who will give him what it is he wants. If he likes BJ’s but you find them repulsive and even if you decide to go ahead and give him one, he will know it’s not your thing and most likely will wander to find someone who loves to do it.

Women do not like to think they’re bad at sex. I’ve met women who do not know how to moan, whimper, breathe heavy, pant or anything of a sexual nature. Again it goes back to the fact they are untrained and think they know all they need to know. Ever wonder why some men chase hookers? It’s because hookers have done it all, seen it all and are highly experienced. Nothing fazes them. I know this because I used to do Sorcery work for some hookers when I lived in Florida. Nah they didn’t pay me that way but gave me cold hard cash. I did JuJu to protect them AND to draw in customers to them. But they know a lot about sex. A woman could learn a lot from a hooker just by friending her.

So Where Is Love?

When you think of a love spell as seen on TV, what you are seeing is:

1. Drawing Towards spell
2. Bend Over spell
3. Never Ending spell

Number 3 does not exist except in fantasy novels, movies & TV shows. There is no such thing as a ‘permanent spell’. None.  Period. A love spell in the modern sense is comprised of numbers 1 & 2. It is not a one shot thing either. It requires first to draw the person you desire towards you THEN to perform a Bend Over spell which in effect is a lot like a Commanding or Compelling. Yes we are talking about bending his will to want to be with you.

With all that said, you CAN tie a man up to be just yours but realize a couple of things first:

1. He won’t wander but if he had a penchant to wander before, he will become listless over time and possibly become boring.

2. He may become violent because he wants to wander & play but is unable to do so because he is tied down to you. Thus he may take is aggression out on you.

3. Tying a man up and keeping him tied is going to require a LOT of work and it is a paint in the behind. When you stop, the spell is broken and he will be free to wander yet again.

Now bringing him to you often is a large hurdle in and of itself. Lots of you gals want a guy that some other woman has already claimed or one who has devoted himself to a particular female. In that case, you need a Break Up spell done first which reauires you to formally declare you wish to invade this man’s life and destroy it so that you can have him all to yourself. So in effect, you are a home wrecker on top of a selfish child. (Know anyone like this?)

Once you get him to come to you, then you must figure out what it is he wants and give it to him. That means you better know his turn ons, turn offs, desires, dreams, goals and wishes and they better not be just those about sex. It is said, “Men marry their mothers and Women marry their fathers” and to some extent this is true. If your father was a stand up guy, you’ll want a man who is also a stand up guy. Was your father protective? Spoke clean and not vulgar? Was he a professional, semi-skilled or general laborer? You as a woamn need to find out what his mother was like. It is her personality that will attract Mr. Handsome Hunk to you in the most positive manner. However you need to realize that if Mr. Handsome Hunk may know things about his mother that you won’t know so you’ll be guessing unless you know his mother and have spent time with her.

It is also said “Before you can love another, you must first love yourself” and that’s not to say you need to be arrogant and in love with yourself like some egotistical model but rather have a high self-esteem and like yourself enough to care about yourself in appearance, mental faculties and reasoning. Doubt me? Look at women you know who have the ideal mates already landed. What do they have you don’t?

Self-esteem issues an be repaired with some counseling and dedication. A little confidence goes a long way with most men. But realize we as men have far more things on our minds than just sex. Yeah sure some guys live for their penis and hey, that’s their right to do so. Some want to add another notch on their bedpost. Some want to find someone compatible and settle down. I’ve seen these latter guys go through hell trying to find a suitable partner. Lots of women out there but so many fixated on six pack abs & how much is in your bank account that it’s about as sickening as the men focused on pornography models.

The Real Key

My advice is when you meet a man, resist the urge & temptation to have sex until you KNOW he is the one. He’s interested in you? Really? Good then make him earn your respect and your affections. Secondly, learn all you can about sex. There are sex instructional videos (not pornography) that can teach you new ideas and how to handle old style requests from BJ’s to anal penetration.

Anyone offering to do love spells cheap and trying to tell you they’re permanent are full of shit and you should grab your wallet and run like hell the other direction! Fast! A love spell should at best spark the interest of the target who the spell is aimed at.

Realize the best thing to do is to learn how to please him sexually. Ever see a gorgeous hunk with a not-so attractive woman? That’s because she knows what she’s doing in the bedroom and can deliver. It’s not all about the vagina, ladies. That vagina is designed to give birth and built to take a baby’s new born head. Some men like it tight so the anal penetration is more their style or oral pleasure. And spitting is akin to saying, “you’re not good enough for me!” thus it may be prudent to find a man who fits your ideals and your life.

Sex in our society is so taboo that it is more often than not banned from polite conversation. Ever wonder why? Because the Bible says it is! There's your problem right there. Maybe it would be worth your time & effort to focus on telling a man how to give you an orgasm and for you to learn from him how he likes to have an orgasm. Make his eyes roll up inside his skull and you'll know you've hit home. After that he'll judge you based on how you treat him.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

The Cauldron Calling the Nganga Black

Please explain to me how publishing a book on secrets of the esoteric arts and clandestine groups is doing anything to keep such groups and practices out of the hands of fools? For instance many McWiccans complain about Sorcery or ‘dark magic’ being published yet they put out their watered down milk slop in books, on websites & in social networking. If Magic is so damned powerful and dangerous why publish it at all?
Likewise I find it foolish for a McWiccan to complain about Joe Sixpack's decision to use sorcery to help himself out of a tough situation because of karma, ethics & lack of responsibility and yet the McWiccans feel it's fine to publish spells and occult knowledge (regardless of how basic it is) without any such fears. Isn't that the cauldron calling the nganga black?
Time was if you wanted to learn magic, you had to find a reputable group or someone knowledgeable on the subject and be taught first hand. Then later books were printed and you could learn by study and personal practice. Now we have the Internet with gleaming websites filled with esoteric fluff that’s contradictory to other websites or books or traditions that makes little to no sense.

“But Moloch, it’s all just magic and magic is what the person does with it, right?” 

What the McWiccan & some of the Ceremonial Wannabe crowd doesn't understand is that you can give them powerful phrases, secret words of power and even put dangerous substances into their hands like Cemetery Powder and if they don’t know what the hell they’re doing they can (most likely) end up with nothing happening or can it go awry in a very bad way. Of course they may get lucky and hit on all eight cylinders but it’s rare to stumble to make the connections enough to work out the way you intended it to be. That’s just pure dumb luck.
What it takes to work magic is far more than just will; it takes talent. The problem is everyone is at a different level of talent than each other and as an author when I speak about using X + Y to get Z I am presuming you have the nerve, the knowledge, the strength and the raw talent to make it work. It also helps to know what could go wrong and prepare in case it does go wrong.

“But Moloch, if I just follow the instructions shouldn't it work because it’s magic?” 

         No. If such were the case then every book out there with any sort of spell, ceremony or ritual would be a potential time bomb waiting for some hapless soul to stumble on it and blow themselves up with it. Many in the Hoodoo crowd buy into this thinking all they need to do is add these ingredients to the red flannel charm bag, spit in it and presto-changeo! Magic! Right!! You keep believing that nonsense, cupcake!
Most ‘magicK’ presented out there on the web is little more than psychological trickery especially the way its presented and discussed. The Chaos MagicKians all think real magicK is all about the subconscious and implanting seeds into it. While that may be true within the context of their paradigm, you cannot plant seeds in your garden and expect fruit to grow in someone else’s garden. It just does not work that way.
Sorcery is about affecting not only your internal world but the greater world around you and outside of your direct personal influence where psychology is left holding the door. A sorcerer plants seeds in his garden when he wishes to reap what he’s sown and he’ll plant seeds in the garden of whoever it is he wishes to cause a harvest for. It’s that simple.